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The sages say we should carry two notes in our pockets. One that says "the whole world was created just for me!" and another one that says, " I am nothing. "
I have witnessed those who carry only one of those notes. The ones who carry only the first note, are very energetic. They love to take charge and that's great to see. Just sometimes they can railroad others as well as styfle and suffocate them.
An example could a lady who loves to talk. Unfortunately she dominates the conversation time and time again. It makes her feel brilliant, but she doesn't learn from anyone because she doesn't hear anyone. Finally, folks just "entertain" her by sitting quietly and not offering anything.
Say that same person realizes her fault and feels really crummy about it. She has now gained the other note: " I am nothing. ". However ,she must not discard the first note. Otherwise, she will end up quiet and demure. Feeling that she's just not worth anyone's time and she just can't do things right anyway.
The proper balance is to have both notes in one's pocket.
1 comment:
Hello there Miriam!
{waves}
I think this is excellent!
I don't know if I'd ever teach others to believe that the world was created just for them, but I do understand the value in having a sense of self-worth.
I also realize that many, many people have not be taught HOW TO listen well, and those who know how to listen well should actually teach others. It is an extraordinary gift to have, and gifts are intended to be given.
Peace, blessings and DUNAMIS!
Lisa
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